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7 Ways You Can Honor God and Serve Others During the Christmas Season

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The news spread through our class at church. One couple’s son had passed. Bill, one of our teachers, and his wife were among the first to visit. The afternoon we arrived, Bill had returned, vacuumed the house, and polished the shoes family members would wear to the funeral the next day. He’d demonstrated ways to honor God and serve others—even in a busy season.

As he said good-bye, he noticed another need and turned to add water to a vase filled with white roses.

The grieving mom shook her head in amazement, grabbed my hands, and faced me with tear-filled eyes. “Bill vacuumed our floors and polished our shoes.”

Our Bible study class members and other friends filled the fridge and countertops with more food than the family could eat in a week. Food aromas wafted through the rooms of the house, representing love and concern for physical needs. Poinsettias from neighbors decorated the table where homemade cakes sat. Hugs and tears acknowledged our compassion.

Each gift and visit met a need.

But Bill was the only one who thought about doing the humble chores—vacuuming and polishing shoes—what I call floor-level chores. I thought about the way Jesus stooped down to wash the feet of His disciples. Afterwards, He taught them and teaches us an important lesson.

If I then, your Lord and Teacher, have washed your feet, you also ought to wash one another’s feet. For I have given you an example, that you also should do just as I have done to you. Truly, truly, I say to you, a servant is not greater than his master, nor is a messenger greater than the one who sent him.  If you know these things, blessed are you if you do them.   John 13:14-17 ESV

How did Bill find ways to serve that the rest of us hadn’t even considered?

  • Maybe he was looking for ways to “love one another with brotherly affection” (Romans 12:10).
  • Perhaps Bill had read Philippians 2:4 that morning and wanted to put someone else’s needs before his own. He was delighted to minister to friends in their time of need instead of rushing home to decorate his family Christmas tree or relax in his recliner with a mug of coffee.
  • Maybe Bill’s love for Jesus and a spirit of humility created a desire to be more like Him.

Although Jesus was fully God, He ‘came not to be served but to serve, and to give his life as a ransom for many.’              Mark 10:45

 As we celebrate the birth of Christ this year, how can we honor our Lord and serve others? Consider the following ideas:

  1. When you pray each morning, tell God you’re available to bring honor to Him and service to others. Then watch for needs that He prompts you to meet.
  2. Read an Advent devotion daily to help you focus on the reason we celebrate and pray to apply what you’ve read.
  3. Invite others to your table for fellowship and fun. Share a simple meal like bowls of chili (recipe included below) and salad, or invite someone to join you for hot chocolate and cookies.
  4. Include a verse of Scripture and an encouraging note on your Christmas cards to bring hope to recipients.
  5. Fill a Giving Jar or plate with cookies or candies. The jar I received last week included a tag which reads, “Enjoy, refill, and pass it along.”
  6. Ask about needs in your community and partner with neighbors, fellow church members, or friends to meet those needs.
  7. Ask God to lead you to “floor-level jobs.” Keep this one a secret between you and God.

Like Bill, we can consider the needs of others and love Jesus so much we seek to serve others as He did.

Have this mind among yourselves, which is yours in Christ Jesus, who, though he was in the form of God, did not count equality with God a thing to be grasped, but emptied himself, by taking the form of a servant, being born in the likeness of men. Philippians 2:5-7

In addition to attending services, we can serve others in Jesus’ name at Christmas time.

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We can delight in delaying our own plans when the Holy Spirit leads us to show God’s love in tangible ways—even floor-level ways.

Maybe a servant heart is the best gift we can give Jesus to celebrate the day He served us in the most profound way of all—when He relinquished His celestial home to lie in a lowly manger. Let’s bow before Him in praise and open our hearts to the simple floor-level needs of others—at Christmas time and beyond.

Your Turn

Please share examples of humble service to others. If every reader contributes, we’ll have a collective list to prompt our hearts to action.

 

Books Are Great Gifts

May I suggest my book, A Place at His Table: God’s Daily Gifts to Satisfy Your Heart, as a gift? Many people are buying copies for hostess gifts and Christmas presents. You can find it on Amazon.com, Barnes&Noble.com, Bold Vision Books, and on other bookseller sites. Fun Table Tips are included with each of 40 devotions. They include recipes, party plans, and simple table decorations.

A gift for you: Karen’s Make & Share Chili

 

Brown 2 pounds of ground beef with one diced onion.

(Or substitute one pound of ground turkey or ground chicken.)

Add:

1 (15 oz.) can diced tomatoes

1 (15 oz.) can of tomato sauce

1 (15 oz.) can pinto beans (I prefer these to kidney beans.)

½ tsp. garlic powder

¼-½ tsp. chili powder

salt and pepper to taste

1-2 tablespoons mustard

¼ cup ketchup

1-1 ½ cups water

After the chili bubbles, simmer for 15-30 minutes.

(Adjust seasonings to suit your taste or substitute a pack of chili seasoning.)

Leftover chili:

Add heated leftover chili to a bed of lettuce for taco salad or serve it on a baked potato. Add grated cheese or dollops of sour cream or guacamole.

 

5 Ways to Enhance the Gratitude Capacity of Your Heart and Give Thanks

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My friend Karen planned a Friendsgiving celebration for the residents at the healthcare home where her mother lives. We decorated the tables with tall lanterns filled with tiny lights and red, orange, and yellow silk leaves. Then we added stuffed pumpkins and sprinkled candy at each place. During the celebration, the elderly ladies and gentlemen taught me an important lesson.

After participants had listened to a devotion about friendship and played games, they gathered around the tables to share some of their blessings. Their lists included life, family, friends, good memories, sunny days, chocolate cake, and many more.

When I heard wheelchair-bound nursing home residents express thanks for their blessings, I considered my heart’s gratitude capacity. If they can thank God for their blessings while facing adversity, surely I can, too. Then I wondered how Scripture can help us develop an attitude of gratitude when we experience trials or hear distressing news.

Gratitude fills my heart when I enjoy family gatherings, breath-taking mountain views, and vanilla lattes. But I confess, words of thanksgiving often sputter and stall when I face trials.

Recent trials include a stubborn printer with the nerve to die the night before a speaking engagement, even more stubborn plumbing that required a costly repair days before guests arrived, aggravating back pain, and far worse, a friend’s cancer diagnosis.

The grateful hearts of my new wheelchair-bound friends set a Christlike example for me.

Give thanks in all circumstances; for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus for you.

1 Thessalonians 5:18 ESV*

At the conclusion of the activities, we enjoyed ice cream sundaes. The sweet ladies at my table loved the choice of chocolate or caramel syrup and the addition of nuts and cherries. Laughter bubbled from the conversations as we ate.

Then Karen gave each resident a handmade bookmark decorated with fall pictures and a ribbon. She also gave them blank thank you cards and suggested they give the cards to a family member or a facility employee they appreciated.

Miss Maureen, a white-haired saint, grabbed Karen’s hand, pulled her closer, and gave Karen her thank you card. Whispered words brought tears to Karen’s eyes. “Thank you for taking time to bring joy to us. This was such fun. Please come back again.” My misty-eyed friend promised we’d return.

As the sweet residents wheeled from the room, some of them held our hands and told us how much they’d enjoyed the celebration. I suspect our blessings outweighed theirs.

With their kind words echoing in my heart, I pondered the biblical instruction to express thanks in all things. I long to develop an attitude of gratitude—even in challenging times—like I’d observed during the Friendsgiving celebration.

The Bible doesn’t tell us to feel thankful. Instead, it instructs us to give thanks.

Perhaps we should read verses about expressing gratitude daily and ask God to increase our capacity to give thanks—like my new friends modeled for me.

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5 Ways to Enhance the Gratitude Capacity of Your Heart and Give Thanks

1. With obedience to God

And whatever you do, in word or deed, do everything in the name of the Lord Jesus, giving thanks to God the Father through him.

Colossians 3:17

Give thanks to the Lord, for he is good, for his steadfast love endures forever. Give thanks to the God of gods, for his steadfast love endures forever. Give thanks to the Lord of lords, for his steadfast love endures forever; to him who alone does great wonders, for his steadfast love endures forever.

Psalm 136:1-4

Giving thanks always and for everything to God the Father in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ.

Ephesians 5:20

2. With singing

I will give to the Lord the thanks due to his righteousness, and I will sing praise to the name of the Lord, the Most High.

Psalm 7:17

Make a joyful noise to the Lord, all the earth! Serve the Lord with gladness! Come into his presence with singing!

Psalm 100:1-2

3. With recognition of His love and peace

Oh give thanks to the Lord, for he is good, for his steadfast love endures forever!

Psalm 107:1

And let the peace of Christ rule in your hearts, to which indeed you were called in one body. And be thankful.

Colossians 3:15

4. With prayer

Continue steadfastly in prayer, being watchful in it with thanksgiving.

Colossians 4:2

Rejoice always, pray without ceasing, give thanks in all circumstances; for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus for you.

1 Thessalonians 5:16-18

5. With awareness of who God is and remembrance of His gifts

The Lord is my strength and my shield; in him my heart trusts, and I am helped; my heart exults, and with my song I give thanks to him.

Psalm 28:7

Let them thank the Lord for his steadfast love, for his wondrous works to the children of man! For he satisfies the longing soul, and the hungry soul he fills with good things.

Psalm 107:8-9

Every good gift and every perfect gift is from above, coming down from the Father of lights, with whom there is no variation or shadow due to change.

James 1:17

The echo of gratitude from my new friends’ words and the verses I found are filling my heart and my words with thanksgiving.

Your Turn

What’s one way to develop a heart of gratitude? How is giving thanks beneficial to our walk with Christ? I look forward to your comments.

*All verses are taken from the ESV.

Another story of gratitude

Click here Gratitude According to Aunt Tommie for a devotion from A Place at His Table: God’s Daily Gifts to Satisfy Your Heart. Marilyn Nutter shared it on her website. You’ll read how my Aunt Tommie shared 6-ounce bottles of Coca-Cola and wise advice about gratitude.

A Place at His Table includes 40 devotions with Table Tips–recipes, easy centerpiece ideas, and celebration suggestions. What a perfect hostess gift!  

   Available at Amazon & at other places where good books are sold.           

 

Banish the Morning Blues and Celebrate Each Day with the Psalmists

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Local friends, please read the invitation at the conclusion of this post and RSVP. Thank you.

When you hear, “She got up on the wrong side of the bed,” you know someone displayed grouchy behavior. How can we start our days on the right side and banish the morning blues? Let’s start by celebrating each day with morning prayers from God’s Word.

Even if we don’t display grouchy behavior, life’s circumstances can cloud our attitude as soon as we wake up unless “we take captive every thought to make it obedient to Christ” (2 Corinthians 10:5 NIV) and focus on God.

Let’s celebrate each morning as a gift from Him—because it is. When we begin the day with our focus on our heavenly Father, the early minutes become golden opportunities to praise and worship Him and to seek His guidance for the day.

News reports, illness, and other difficult situations weigh on our minds, but sharing our burdens with the God of all comfort gives us peace. Reading the Bible reminds us of who He is—our holy, faithful, omnipotent Father who is filled with love and kindness.

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Here’s a collection of some morning prayers from the Psalms. You could mark them in your Bible, type them into a phone app, or write them on cards. This practice will likely lead to reading and praying entire chapters in this marvelous book.

Morning Prayers

Let the morning bring me word of your unfailing love, for I have put my trust in you.
Show me the way I should go, for to you I entrust my life. –Psalm 143:8

 

I wait for the Lord more than watchmen wait for the morning. –Psalm 130:6a

 

Satisfy us in the morning with your unfailing love, that we may sing for joy and be glad all our days. –Psalm 90:14

 

 But I will sing of your strength, in the morning I will sing of your love; for you are my fortress, my refuge in times of trouble. –Psalm 59:16

 

 I rise before dawn and cry for help; I have put my hope in your word. –Psalm 119:147

 

May these words of my mouth and this meditation of my heart be pleasing in your sight, Lord, my Rock and my Redeemer. –Psalm 19:14

A morning promise:

Because of the Lord’s great love we are not consumed, for his compassions never fail. They are new every morning; great is your faithfulness. –Lamentations 3:22-23

Here’s another verse that helps us evaluate our thoughts and keep them sunny throughout the day. Paul’s message to the Philippians helps us focus our thoughts from one sunrise to the next.

 Finally, brothers and sisters, whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable—if anything is excellent or praiseworthy—think about such things.   –Philippians 4:8

This evening verse will help us rest well and get up the next morning on the right side the next morning.

In peace I will lie down and sleep, for you alone, Lord, make me dwell in safety. –Psalm 4:8

*All Scripture verses are taken from the NIV.

After you read the verses, share with us a favorite from the list or your favorite verse or chapter that helps you banish the blues and celebrate each day as a gift from God.

Local friends, you’re invited. You may buy books for yourself or for Christmas gifts or bring one you’ve already purchased if you want it signed. We’ll enjoy light refreshments and decorated tables. Plan to join the celebration and please RSVP to Jeannie@JeannieWaters.com. I hope to see you October 29!

Take Six Easy Steps to Change Your Closet and Examine Your Heart This Fall

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Goosebumps covered my ten-year-old arms and legs as I skipped rocks on the river beside my grandparents’ cabin. How I wished for my gray corduroy pants on that breezy autumn day. Cooler weather reminds us of sweaters and flannel. An easy six-step plan for seasonal closet adjustments can lead us to examine our hearts this fall.

Each September I exchange the summer clothes in my closet for scarves, warm slacks, and turtlenecks. When I assess my fall wardrobe, the try-it-on-to-see-if-I-still-need-it mound grows on my bed. A glance in the mirror confirms my suspicion that some outfits have outlived their usefulness.

The goal is to keep only seasonally-appropriate, well-fitting clothes. The rule? Toss those articles you haven’t worn in two years. (Or if you’re feeling brave, one year.) Are you ready to tackle your closet? Come on, it’s not THAT hard, right? Well maybe, but not impossible.

6 Steps for Changing Your Closet This Fall

  1. Choose a date and write “Fall Closet Reno” on the calendar.
  2. Plan a reward for a season-ready, well-organized closet.
  3. Divide clothing into three piles: Keep, donate, not sure.
  4. Tackle the “not sure” pile. Ask, “Will I wear this soon? When? Where?” Mirrors are honest. Try on each item and take a whirl. If necessary, call an honest friend.
  5. Arrange outfits on your bed. List new pieces to purchase for added pizazz. A new scarf, a denim jacket, or a tailored white shirt might multiply possibilities.
  6. Celebrate with the reward you planned.

Like cool weather signals wardrobe adjustments, a new season can be a good time to examine our hearts. Are there habits or attitudes we should abandon like a moth-eaten sweater? Are there Christ-like characteristics we should practice or “put on?”

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6 Steps for Examining Our Hearts This Fall

1. Plan for fall quiet times with God.

Before the hurry-scurry of holiday season arrives, ensure you have a daily time of prayer and Bible study—short or long—but daily. You might try to write in a journal or find a new devotional,  but keep the Bible as your main source.

2. Pull up your chair to God’s table.

A table for two. He waits for you and welcomes you. Take time to enjoy His presence. To worship and praise him. To express gratitude. To lift the needs of others. To ask questions and lay your needs before Him. To listen.

3. Put away un-Christlike thoughts and behaviors.

Examine your heart as you read the Bible. We can confess sin and count on God’s forgiveness and His strength to rake away negative thoughts and actions from our lives like dead leaves.

 But now you must put them all away: anger, wrath, malice, slander, and obscene talk from your mouth.

Colossians 3:8 ESV*

Let no corrupting talk come out of your mouths, but only such as is good for building up, as fits the occasion, that it may give grace to those who hear.

Ephesians 4:29

4. Put on Christlike qualities.

Put on then, as God’s chosen ones, holy and beloved, compassionate hearts, kindness, humility, meekness, and patience, bearing with one another . . . And above all these put on love . . .

Colossians 3:12-14

God’s Word teaches us to “put on” godly conduct. When I try to improve myself, success is short-lived.

The good news is when God does the work, we change from the heart outward. God promises to conform us to His image. When He changes us, these qualities dwell in our hearts and shine from our lives.

Prayer and Scripture will remind us of the work God is doing in our hearts. Perhaps it would help to imagine slipping on a new fall jacket labeled “kindness,” or “love” or “patience” before we start each day. When we read the gospels, we see how Jesus walked on earth. His example lights the way for us.

5. Ponder on His promises.

When the enemy tempts you to think negative thoughts, find a promise of God’s to cling to and pray. Thank you, Father, you’ll never leave me. Thank you, Father, you promise to meet my needs.

6. Plan for adequate rest, rich fellowship with others, and opportunities to serve in Jesus’ name.

Okay, it’s time to get into that closet and make bold decisions as you prepare for cooler weather. As you work, play praise music and worship the Lord. When you rest, try the six steps above and ask God to examine your heart. As a believer, you can thank Him for the warmth of His presence for every season.

* Scripture verses are taken from the ESV.

Your Turn

Please share a closet organization tip or a way you examine your heart for a new season. What helps you remember to “put on” Christlike behavior?

If you need a new fall devotional or if you want a Scripture-filled Christmas gift for friends, may I suggest my new devotional? A Place at His Table: God’s Daily Gifts to Satisfy Your Heart. Each devotion begins with a table story and leads to a Bible passage that illustrates one of God’s gifts. Table Tips include recipes, easy centerpiece ideas, and celebration plans.

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Four Helpful Tips to Keep Your Hospitality Simple and Fun

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When you hear the word hospitality, do you smile and hum “Be Our Guest” from Beauty and the Beast? Or do you frown and sing the “I’m Too Busy Blues?” We know the Bible teaches us to be hospitable, but sometimes it seems overwhelming.

Let’s put our heads together and make it easier. Ready?

We’ll see what my friend Jean Wilund did to make entertaining easy—even when she faced a challenge.

Jean invited Frances to join her for coffee and pastries, but she almost left her neighbor on the porch wondering if she’d arrived on the wrong day. Jean shared the story with me in an email. Here’s Jean’s hospitality story.

Last night, I remembered I’d invited my neighbor Frances for coffee. I was tired from a wonderful event at my church, but after I’d placed the flower arrangement I’d brought home on my table, I straightened the living room and kitchen before I went to bed.

I even prayed I wouldn’t wake up with bed head so I wouldn’t have to wash my hair.

But when the alarm rang, I forgot about Frances and went back to sleep. I needed to sleep longer.

Well, I slept all right—until 15 minutes before my sweet neighbor was due to arrive! Remembering my invitation, I jumped out of bed, dressed, and fluffed my hair. Thankfully, the bed head monster hadn’t visited overnight.

As soon as I popped scones into the oven and set out mugs, the doorbell rang.

We had the best time visiting. Frances didn’t mind drinking coffee while the frozen pastries I’d bought from a local restaurant baked. Whew! An amazing morning.

Now Jean laughs about her near fiasco and the challenge of scurrying to prepare. But she’d taken some steps ahead of time to make welcoming Frances into her home easy.

Jean and her husband enjoy inviting family and friends to their home for meals, but this time Jean offered her neighbor fresh coffee, baked pastries, and a place at her table.

A businesswoman in the New Testament offered a place at her table to Paul and his travel companions. At a riverside prayer meeting, Lydia heard Paul’s preaching and gave her life to Christ. Here’s the invitation Lydia extended as recorded by Luke:

And after she was baptized, and her household as well, she urged us, saying, “If you have judged me to be faithful to the Lord, come to my house and stay.” And she prevailed upon us.

Acts 16: 15 ESV

Notice Lydia begged them to visit her home. Maybe Lydia had prepared lentil stew or baked bread that morning. The Bible doesn’t include details, but we know Lydia served guests with spontaneous hospitality.

Remember, hospitality is a SNAP when we trust God and open our homes and our hearts to the people we care about and want to serve.

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Let’s try these strategies:

Four Helpful SNAP Tips to Keep Your Hospitality Simple and Fun

 

S    “Show hospitality to one another without grumbling” (1 Peter 4:9 ESV).

Grumbling slows our momentum and robs us of joy—and keeps us from obeying this command from Scripture.

N     Never apologize for what’s missing when you’ve used well the resources God has given you.

Although we want our homes to be reasonably clean, it’s not about the food and the furniture, but the people in the chairs (based on a quote by W. S. Gilbert).*

A     Adopt the motto, “Keep it simple and laugh often.”

I learned from my daughter and daughter-in-love to keep it simple when time is short. They sometimes offer guests home-cooked meals, but if they’re busy, they pick up pizza or barbecue and enjoy the time with family and friends. Prize the fellowship of hospitality, not the fanfare.

P    Pray and prepare ahead.

Jean prays about who to invite, and she prays for those who join her. She prepares ahead by keeping delicious pastries from a local restaurant in her freezer. My friend Lori prepares two quiches instead of one. When an opportunity arises to share a meal with friends or church visitors, she pulls the extra quiche out of the freezer and adds a salad. Sometimes she takes the extra one to a friend who needs a meal.

I hope the tips give you new ideas or prompt you to remember some you’ve tried before.

*https://quotefancy.com/w-s-gilbert-quotes

Your Turn

How have you extended hospitality in a SNAP? What are the values of offering a guest a place at your table?

Now that my book is finished, I’m eager to invite more guests to my table.  In my book, A Place at His Table, WHICH RELEASED THIS WEEK, you’ll find a funny hospitality story about how my friend Glenda cooked too many beans. Find the link below. But first …

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If you’re looking for an excellent Bible study, you’ll love Jean Wilund’s NEW RELEASE:

Embracing Joy: An 8-Week Transformational Bible Study of Habakkuk

(Our Daily Bread Publishing)

Jean teaches us how to the study the Bible as we study this Old Testament book.

Here’s the link: Embracing the Joy Bible study book  

My 40-day devotional was also RELEASED THIS WEEK!

A Place at His Table: God’s Daily Gifts to Satisfy Your Heart

(Bold Vision Books Publishing)

Southern table stories connect to Bible passages, and scriptural truths equip us to stand against fear, doubt, and worry as we embrace God’s gifts for victorious living.

Fun Table Tips include recipes, easy centerpiece ideas, and celebration plans.

Here’s a link:  Find A Place at His Table