Reach for Refreshment & Savor Your Summer: Connect with God and Each Other

 

How can “Connecting with God and Each Other” refresh us and help us squeeze all the goodness out of summer days?

Did you notice the title change in my website banner above? I still plan to brighten your day with encouraging posts based on God’s Word and practical tips, but we’ll focus on relationships and how to strengthen them.

As I read Scripture and talk with friends, ideas are splashing onto the page like a waterfall on the river rocks below it. I can’t wait to share posts with you and read your ideas.

A challenge

Let’s reach for refreshment and savor our summer days before the season slips away. Vacations, family visits, and the restful days we treasure at home all renew us. Still, these sunny days will vanish as quickly as watermelon at a picnic.

No regrets

Instead of saying, “This summer, I meant to …,” let’s plan to enjoy the days and the refreshment God gives us when we build our relationship with Him and with others.

Table time for refreshment

My favorite place to connect with our heavenly Father is at the table on my deck. A cup of coffee and a bird chorus start my summer days off right—with refreshment I can savor all day.

One morning, I walked onto the deck to pray and read Scripture after the temperature had reached 84 degrees. I returned to the kitchen and poured my coffee from one ice-filled cup to another until it cooled.

I walked back to my table on the deck and sipped the iced coffee. The drink’s coolness refreshed me physically and God’s Word refreshed my spirit.

The law of the Lord is perfect, reviving the soul.

Psalm 19:7 ESV

The early morning summer air is crisp and cool where I live, but when the day races ahead of my time with God, it gets too hot and sticky to sit outside. (The humidity here sometimes makes me feel like I’m wrapped in plastic wrap. Seriously.)

When my day gets into full swing and I’m deprived of my time with God, worry or stress sometimes heats up too. We can read our Bibles and pray anytime, but spending time in God’s Word early on summer mornings refreshes our spirits and brightens our day. (If mornings don’t work for you, try another time of day.)

Sharing God’s blessings

After we’ve talked with Him in prayer and filled our hearts with His Word, connecting with others is easier and more enjoyable. Whether we’re introverts or extroverts, Scripture teaches us to reach out to others.

After we’ve talked with God in prayer and filled our hearts with His Word, connecting with others is easier and more enjoyable.  Share on X

Let’s consider three verses about fellowship.

  1. The first verse gives us a biblical example. After the Resurrection and Pentecost, when God sent His Holy Spirit to dwell in believers,

they devoted themselves to the apostles’ teaching and the fellowship, to the breaking of bread and the prayers.

Acts 2:42 ESV

  1. The inspired writer of Hebrews tells us how to cherish our time to build relationships and encourage fellow believers.

And let us consider how to stir up one another to love and good works, not neglecting to meet together, as is the habit of some, but encouraging one another, and all the more as you see the Day drawing near.

Hebrews 10:24-25 ESV

  1. Paul’s writing teaches us how to connect with those who may not be Christ followers. Look for two strategies in this passage. How can they guide us this summer?

Walk in wisdom toward outsiders, making the best use of the time. Let your speech always be gracious, seasoned with salt, so that you may know how you ought to answer each person.

Colossians 4:5-6 ESV

From these three verses alone, we find an example and strategies to help us strengthen current relationships and build bridges to create new ones for the purpose of sharing Christ.

Whether you’re reluctant to reach out to others or you’re the first one to say, “Come join me,” future blog posts will hold biblical truth and practical help I’m learning for connecting with God and each other.

Before you go, I have one small favor please, and then I have a gift for you.

Would you send a link for this post to 3 friends? If the posts are blessings to you, tell them. Also, let them know for a limited time I’ll continue to send a free PDF to new subscribers entitled “10 Easy Appetizers, Ideas & Recipes” to enjoy around the table with family and friends.

A new resource about friendships will replace this one soon.

Your Turn

What’s your favorite way to connect with God and with friends during the summer months?

A summertime gift for you

Our daughter is offering you two summertime treat ideas to enjoy and share with friends, old and new.  Savor your days and reach for refreshment.

Iced Coffee

Brew a pot or prepare a cup of coffee.

Add milk or cream and sugar or sweetener if you prefer.

Allow the coffee to cool.

Pour it into an old-fashioned ice cube tray and place it in the freezer.

When you’re ready for a cool treat, place the coffee cubes into a thermal cup. Stir as they begin to melt and enjoy your visit.

Refreshing Broccoli Salad

Add ingredients to a large bowl.

  • fresh broccoli florets
  • chopped red onion
  • crumbled goat cheese (Or substitute your favorite.)
  • raspberries, strawberries, and blueberries
  • chopped walnuts or pecans

Add balsamic vinaigrette dressing to taste. Mix gently for a colorful and tasty salad.

Summer News

This summer, I plan to start a monthly newsletter for subscribers. I’ll pack it full of refreshing value and include additional summer treats.

See you next time.

If you need refreshment, click the link to this former post.

Quench Your Thirst

Remember to Pray

What an honor to share my site today with my friend and author, Carla G. Pollard. I know her story and wise words about remembering prayer requests will brighten your day and encourage you. You’ll find her photo, bio, and links to her website and social media below. Please check out the beautiful writing on her site.

Here’s Carla.

She had a joyful expression as she navigated towards me through the crowded foyer of our church. As women’s ministry leader, I had a responsibility to learn the needs of others, and I had spent time with Jenny discussing hers.

“I want to thank you for praying for my husband,” Jenny expressed as she reached out to shake my hand. “He finally found a job last week. He starts first thing in the morning.”

I strained a smile and nodded as she turned and headed out the door.

Conviction pierced my heart as the memory of her plea for prayers came flooding back. I had forgotten her need. I didn’t pray for her husband. Until she thanked me, I hadn’t even remembered her request.

Dear Lord, please forgive me. I did not hesitate one moment to send up an earnest cry.

Please help me remember the needs of those around me, especially if they ask for my prayers. Please forgive me for letting Jenny believe I had prayed as she had asked. Help me fix this.

It had happened before, forgetting prayer requests. Guilt settled over my heart like a dark cloud.

Just leave it with God and try harder next time.

But I found little solace in my uninspired advice. I knew I would not find relief from this burden until I spoke to Jenny again.

Over the next week, as I sought wisdom on approaching Jenny with my failure, the Holy Spirit reminded me of Jesus praying in the Garden of Gethsemane the evening before He faced death on the cross. Jesus agonized for us. His burdens were so great His sweat poured out as great drops of blood. During this prayer vigil, He sought the help of His disciples, but they proved weak in their flesh. I had been like those disciples, weak in the flesh by forgetting her need.

At the next week’s service, I swallowed my pride and faced my failure.

“Jenny,” I found her sitting off to the right of the sanctuary, “I must confess something to you; I forgot you asked me to pray for your husband’s employment. I don’t deserve any thanks. I want to ask you to forgive me.”

She responded with grace and gratefulness. She was happy her prayers were answered regardless.  We hugged as we acknowledged God knows what we need and meets our needs.

God taught me a valuable lesson through my experience with Jenny. I know how much I depend on the prayers of others and how much others depend on mine. Bringing the needs of family and friends to God in prayer is a privilege that brings greater love and understanding in our relationships with one another.

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Sometimes, our busy lives squeeze out the memory of spoken prayer requests only to fill us later with conviction and guilt when we realize our omission. A friend once said to her teenage son who justified his lack of responsibility with his failing memory, “But you didn’t do anything to help you not forget.” From my encounter with Jenny, I realized I needed a strategy to help me remember. The Lord gave me PRAY.

Have there been times when you have forgotten prayer requests? If so, remember PRAY. These four steps will help you not forget when you are asked to PRAY:

P: Remember what a Privilege it is to pray for others.

R: Pray Right then with the person, if appropriate.

A: Access your App and set a reminder or make a note in your cell phone or on a note pad to pray.

Y: Then, when you pray, Yield your spirit to God’s and Yoke your heart with His.

I sense God’s presence with me when I use these four steps each time I am asked to pray. Through my heartfelt petitions for others, I find renewed strength to face my own problems with hope and purpose. I know you will too when you PRAY for others.

 And they devoted themselves to the apostles’ teaching and the fellowship, to the breaking of bread and the prayers.

Acts 2:42 ESV

Please share with us how you remember the prayer requests of others or how the prayers of family and friends have blessed you.

Carla G. Pollard

Carla G. Pollard is an author and teacher. She loves people and desires to see them reach their full potential through a vibrant relationship with Jesus. She is active in her community and is a shoulder-to-shoulder leader who ministers to the homeless, the imprisoned, the abused, the elderly, and infirm. Her works have appeared in Prayer Connect, CBN Online Devotions, P31 Woman, Power for Living, The Bible Advocate and Together with God. She is a contributing author in Unimaginable: Finding Love through Pain and Sustaining Life’s Victories. Her inspiring messages resonate strength and happiness birthed through pain and sorrow. Carla’s motto is: Be faithful to Jesus; He’s faithful to you.

Carla invites you to connect with her through her blog at www.carlagpollard.com and on Facebook, and Twitter.

Here’s another post about remembering prayer requests.

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