What’s Hindering Your Gratitude?

What’s Hindering Your Gratitude? JeannieWaters.com

Do you buy event or travel tickets early to ensure the best view? Some concert attendees select seating close to the stage, and many frequent fliers prefer a window seat glimpse of the clouds.

Years ago, at a rainy college football game, I appreciated the no-umbrellas-in-the-stadium rule because I preferred getting drenched in my poncho rather than having an obstructed view.

The way we face life’s circumstances can distort our view of God’s blessings and hinder our gratitude. It’s like watching a stage play from the last row of a large theater. Thankfulness can slip from the fingers of our heart when we fail to concentrate on blessings.

In our area, autumn beauty arrived later than usual this year. Due to limited summer rainfall, some of the leaves turned crispy brown and fell early. This week, however, God’s pre-winter palette commands center stage and calls for front row seats. 

I read about the scarlet reds and fire-bright golds but had I not looked for myself, I would have missed the splendor. Forgetting God’s blessings is like closing my window blinds and only imagining our Bradford pear with its Christmas-tree-like color sparkling in the sun.

 One morning I looked out of partially opened blinds and saw only a couple of limbs on our pear tree bedecked with leaves of orange and yellow.

Peering through the slats in the blinds is like being somewhat grateful but not fully experiencing and expressing our gratitude to God—possibly because we are comparing our blessings to those of others or harboring bitterness and unforgiveness in our hearts.

Like the slats in the blinds, those sinful attitudes thwart awareness of the ways God works in our lives. Conversely, turning our focus to Him and His blessings generates a heart of thanksgiving.  

When I fully opened the blinds, I saw more limbs of the almost thirty-year-old tree and noticed brilliant sunlight filtering through the branches. As the blinds obscured less of my view, I saw more of the beautiful tree as well as additional colors.

Yesterday, I claimed a front-row “seat” by walking around the magnificent pear tree, a gift from my dad who now gazes at heaven’s grandeur.

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With nothing blocking my view, I saw leaves tinged in coral and others wearing a deep purple hue. I noticed the strong trunk that supports the limbs and the tiny golden-brown berries clinging to small branches.

Like you, I want to enjoy God’s blessings with unhindered eyes, recognizing His provision and remembering His goodness. I want my heart to be filled with gratitude and overflowing with praise this week and every week.

What hinders our gratitude? Busyness at this time of year can sidetrack our intent to give thanks, even on a day designed for enumerating our blessings.

That, dear friends, would mean we (including me) are too busy. Instead of saying, “Stop and smell the roses,” perhaps we should say, “Stop and take a walk or drive to see seasonal beauty and thank God for His creation and provision.”

Other hindrances to gratitude are sinful attitudes that blur our vision of God’s kindness. Let’s ask Him to forgive bitterness, envy, resentment, or any other sinful thoughts that may be lurking under the surface of our smiles (1 John 1:9).

Rather than scrutinizing the bounty of others, let’s thank our heavenly Father for His generosity as we develop a heart of contentment.  

Now we’re ready to look through open blinds and take a walk as we ponder God’s goodness to us. Here are some ways to make Thanksgiving a season of gratitude:

  • Thank Him for His greatest blessing, the gift of salvation. Jesus died on the cross that we could have forgiveness, fellowship with Him now, and eternal life (John 3:16).
  • Pray the words of the psalmist who understood the value of praising God for Who He is and His gifts.

Great is the Lord, and greatly to be praised;
And His greatness is unsearchable.

Psalm 145:3
  • Look for blessings that you might ignore on other days. How many can you list today? Try writing some down or creating tally marks as you thank God for them.

Oh, give thanks to the Lord, for He is good!
For His mercy endures forever.

Psalm 118:1

Before we gather with friends and family, let’s grab a window seat or a chair on the front row to ensure we grasp the fullness of God’s blessings.

How are you focusing on gratitude this week? Please share your thoughts below.

Have a Thanksgiving filled with gratitude!

Blessings Abound

I learned an unexpected lesson while walking in my yard admiring the beauty of spring.

Our snowball bush is a profuse bloomer this year. Its huge white, ball-shaped flowers demand attention. There are so many blooms, I can’t imagine one more fitting onto the branches. This glorious shrub reminds me of God’s blessings—bountiful and perfectly selected for us. His provisions shout out His love to us when we pay attention. I wonder how many times I miss them and how many times I notice but forget to express gratitude.

Heavenly Father, lift my chin to notice the numerous ways You bless me. Thank You for the beauty of spring and eyes to see it.

At the foot of the snowball, two spirea bushes grow. As a child, I named these plants “Bride’s Bouquet” because they bloom with small clumps of tiny white flowers. These decorative shrubs are graceful and add a delicate, lacy touch to the spring parade. God’s blessings also delight us, adding beauty and grace to our lives and preparing us to serve others. I wonder how many opportunities I miss to share these God-given gifts.

Father God, remind me that blessings are not mine to tuck away and admire. Rather, they are designed to appreciate and share with those You place in my path. Make me a worthy steward of Your gifts.

 After admiring the large shrubs, I wandered around the yard and noticed weeds and wildflowers peeping through the grass. They, too, reminded me of God’s work in our lives.

The onion grass and its characteristic smell pepper the lawn with light green stems and white flowers. “Weeds are a nuisance,” I thought. Upon closer examination, I observed pretty, delicate little flowers heralding a new season. Instead of characterizing onion grass as a pest, I appreciated it as a unique sign of spring and another of God’s creations. Do I look for the good in everything or am I too quick to complain?

 Dear God, remind me to thank You in all things. You give only good gifts.

The next wildflowers I spotted impressed me with their royal color and dramatic shape. They stood in sharp contrast to the surrounding grass and urged me to take a closer look. Although their appearance was stunning, I’d almost missed them. I wonder if I ignore people in my path whose lives would enrich mine or vice versa.

Heavenly Father, slow me down when I’m too busy to notice the people You send to teach me and the people You plan for me to serve. Use me to encourage someone today.

As I studied other wildflowers through the lens of my camera, I realized they would disappear as soon as my husband cuts the grass. They would only provide colorful accessories to spring’s fashion show for only a few more days. How I wished they could stay. Some blessings are fleeting—ours to enjoy for only a brief time. A sunrise. A sunset. A new acquaintance. An opportunity to share the blessings of Christ Jesus.

Lord Jesus, let me fix my gaze on You each morning so that I notice and embrace all of the gifts You prepare. May I not miss a single opportunity to share Your love with others.

 Every good gift and every perfect gift is from above, coming down from the Father of lights, with whom there is no variation or shadow due to change.

                                                                                                             –James 1:17 ESV

Is God’s creation reminding you of blessings? Please tell us about those you’ve received or shared recently.