When my husband and I visited a mall with a friend, our five-year-old daughter, Tyler Marie, instantly spied a stuffed deer in the toy shop window. She led me by the hand into the store, picked up the cute animal with huge eyes and soft brown fur, and asked us to buy it. “I really need this deer, Mommy, because I don’t have a deer.” “But you have lots of stuffed animals,” I responded. “But I don’t have a deer. I’ve never had a deer in my whole life. Can we please buy him? Pleeease?” My husband reminded our little…