When you hear the word hospitality, do you smile and hum “Be Our Guest” from Beauty and the Beast? Or do you frown and sing the “I’m Too Busy Blues?” We know the Bible teaches us to be hospitable, but sometimes it seems overwhelming.
Let’s put our heads together and make it easier. Ready?
We’ll see what my friend Jean Wilund did to make entertaining easy—even when she faced a challenge.
Jean invited Frances to join her for coffee and pastries, but she almost left her neighbor on the porch wondering if she’d arrived on the wrong day. Jean shared the story with me in an email. Here’s Jean’s hospitality story.
Last night, I remembered I’d invited my neighbor Frances for coffee. I was tired from a wonderful event at my church, but after I’d placed the flower arrangement I’d brought home on my table, I straightened the living room and kitchen before I went to bed.
I even prayed I wouldn’t wake up with bed head so I wouldn’t have to wash my hair.
But when the alarm rang, I forgot about Frances and went back to sleep. I needed to sleep longer.
Well, I slept all right—until 15 minutes before my sweet neighbor was due to arrive! Remembering my invitation, I jumped out of bed, dressed, and fluffed my hair. Thankfully, the bed head monster hadn’t visited overnight.
As soon as I popped scones into the oven and set out mugs, the doorbell rang.
We had the best time visiting. Frances didn’t mind drinking coffee while the frozen pastries I’d bought from a local restaurant baked. Whew! An amazing morning.
Now Jean laughs about her near fiasco and the challenge of scurrying to prepare. But she’d taken some steps ahead of time to make welcoming Frances into her home easy.
Jean and her husband enjoy inviting family and friends to their home for meals, but this time Jean offered her neighbor fresh coffee, baked pastries, and a place at her table.
A businesswoman in the New Testament offered a place at her table to Paul and his travel companions. At a riverside prayer meeting, Lydia heard Paul’s preaching and gave her life to Christ. Here’s the invitation Lydia extended as recorded by Luke:
And after she was baptized, and her household as well, she urged us, saying, “If you have judged me to be faithful to the Lord, come to my house and stay.” And she prevailed upon us.
Acts 16: 15 ESV
Notice Lydia begged them to visit her home. Maybe Lydia had prepared lentil stew or baked bread that morning. The Bible doesn’t include details, but we know Lydia served guests with spontaneous hospitality.
Remember, hospitality is a SNAP when we trust God and open our homes and our hearts to the people we care about and want to serve.
Hospitality is a SNAP when we trust God and open our homes and our hearts to the people we care about and want to serve. Share on X
Let’s try these strategies:
Four Helpful SNAP Tips to Keep Your Hospitality Simple and Fun
S “Show hospitality to one another without grumbling” (1 Peter 4:9 ESV).
Grumbling slows our momentum and robs us of joy—and keeps us from obeying this command from Scripture.
N Never apologize for what’s missing when you’ve used well the resources God has given you.
Although we want our homes to be reasonably clean, it’s not about the food and the furniture, but the people in the chairs (based on a quote by W. S. Gilbert).*
A Adopt the motto, “Keep it simple and laugh often.”
I learned from my daughter and daughter-in-love to keep it simple when time is short. They sometimes offer guests home-cooked meals, but if they’re busy, they pick up pizza or barbecue and enjoy the time with family and friends. Prize the fellowship of hospitality, not the fanfare.
P Pray and prepare ahead.
Jean prays about who to invite, and she prays for those who join her. She prepares ahead by keeping delicious pastries from a local restaurant in her freezer. My friend Lori prepares two quiches instead of one. When an opportunity arises to share a meal with friends or church visitors, she pulls the extra quiche out of the freezer and adds a salad. Sometimes she takes the extra one to a friend who needs a meal.
I hope the tips give you new ideas or prompt you to remember some you’ve tried before.
*https://quotefancy.com/w-s-gilbert-quotes
Your Turn
How have you extended hospitality in a SNAP? What are the values of offering a guest a place at your table?
Now that my book is finished, I’m eager to invite more guests to my table. In my book, A Place at His Table, WHICH RELEASED THIS WEEK, you’ll find a funny hospitality story about how my friend Glenda cooked too many beans. Find the link below. But first …





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