Four Helpful Tips to Keep Your Hospitality Simple and Fun

When you hear the word hospitality, do you smile and hum “Be Our Guest” from Beauty and the Beast? Or do you frown and sing the “I’m Too Busy Blues?” We know the Bible teaches us to be hospitable, but sometimes it seems overwhelming.

Let’s put our heads together and make it easier. Ready?

We’ll see what my friend Jean Wilund did to make entertaining easy—even when she faced a challenge.

Jean invited Frances to join her for coffee and pastries, but she almost left her neighbor on the porch wondering if she’d arrived on the wrong day. Jean shared the story with me in an email. Here’s Jean’s hospitality story.

Last night, I remembered I’d invited my neighbor Frances for coffee. I was tired from a wonderful event at my church, but after I’d placed the flower arrangement I’d brought home on my table, I straightened the living room and kitchen before I went to bed.

I even prayed I wouldn’t wake up with bed head so I wouldn’t have to wash my hair.

But when the alarm rang, I forgot about Frances and went back to sleep. I needed to sleep longer.

Well, I slept all right—until 15 minutes before my sweet neighbor was due to arrive! Remembering my invitation, I jumped out of bed, dressed, and fluffed my hair. Thankfully, the bed head monster hadn’t visited overnight.

As soon as I popped scones into the oven and set out mugs, the doorbell rang.

We had the best time visiting. Frances didn’t mind drinking coffee while the frozen pastries I’d bought from a local restaurant baked. Whew! An amazing morning.

Now Jean laughs about her near fiasco and the challenge of scurrying to prepare. But she’d taken some steps ahead of time to make welcoming Frances into her home easy.

Jean and her husband enjoy inviting family and friends to their home for meals, but this time Jean offered her neighbor fresh coffee, baked pastries, and a place at her table.

A businesswoman in the New Testament offered a place at her table to Paul and his travel companions. At a riverside prayer meeting, Lydia heard Paul’s preaching and gave her life to Christ. Here’s the invitation Lydia extended as recorded by Luke:

And after she was baptized, and her household as well, she urged us, saying, “If you have judged me to be faithful to the Lord, come to my house and stay.” And she prevailed upon us.

Acts 16: 15 ESV

Notice Lydia begged them to visit her home. Maybe Lydia had prepared lentil stew or baked bread that morning. The Bible doesn’t include details, but we know Lydia served guests with spontaneous hospitality.

Remember, hospitality is a SNAP when we trust God and open our homes and our hearts to the people we care about and want to serve.

Hospitality is a SNAP when we trust God and open our homes and our hearts to the people we care about and want to serve. Share on X

Let’s try these strategies:

Four Helpful SNAP Tips to Keep Your Hospitality Simple and Fun

 

S    “Show hospitality to one another without grumbling” (1 Peter 4:9 ESV).

Grumbling slows our momentum and robs us of joy—and keeps us from obeying this command from Scripture.

N     Never apologize for what’s missing when you’ve used well the resources God has given you.

Although we want our homes to be reasonably clean, it’s not about the food and the furniture, but the people in the chairs (based on a quote by W. S. Gilbert).*

A     Adopt the motto, “Keep it simple and laugh often.”

I learned from my daughter and daughter-in-love to keep it simple when time is short. They sometimes offer guests home-cooked meals, but if they’re busy, they pick up pizza or barbecue and enjoy the time with family and friends. Prize the fellowship of hospitality, not the fanfare.

P    Pray and prepare ahead.

Jean prays about who to invite, and she prays for those who join her. She prepares ahead by keeping delicious pastries from a local restaurant in her freezer. My friend Lori prepares two quiches instead of one. When an opportunity arises to share a meal with friends or church visitors, she pulls the extra quiche out of the freezer and adds a salad. Sometimes she takes the extra one to a friend who needs a meal.

I hope the tips give you new ideas or prompt you to remember some you’ve tried before.

*https://quotefancy.com/w-s-gilbert-quotes

Your Turn

How have you extended hospitality in a SNAP? What are the values of offering a guest a place at your table?

Now that my book is finished, I’m eager to invite more guests to my table.  In my book, A Place at His Table, WHICH RELEASED THIS WEEK, you’ll find a funny hospitality story about how my friend Glenda cooked too many beans. Find the link below. But first …

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If you’re looking for an excellent Bible study, you’ll love Jean Wilund’s NEW RELEASE:

Embracing Joy: An 8-Week Transformational Bible Study of Habakkuk

(Our Daily Bread Publishing)

Jean teaches us how to the study the Bible as we study this Old Testament book.

Here’s the link: Embracing the Joy Bible study book  

My 40-day devotional was also RELEASED THIS WEEK!

A Place at His Table: God’s Daily Gifts to Satisfy Your Heart

(Bold Vision Books Publishing)

Southern table stories connect to Bible passages, and scriptural truths equip us to stand against fear, doubt, and worry as we embrace God’s gifts for victorious living.

Fun Table Tips include recipes, easy centerpiece ideas, and celebration plans.

Here’s a link:  Find A Place at His Table 

Refresh with Summer Joy: 5 Easy Ways to Gather Friends Around the Table

Let’s continue our theme of reaching for refreshment and savoring summer days by cultivating our relationship with God and each other.

Today I’m including:

1. Lemonade stand memories,

2. Encouraging words from the apostle Paul,

3. 5 easy ways to gather friends around the table,

4. 2 more summer recipes, and drum roll please …

5. Updates on A Place at His Table, my devotional that releases this August.

Let’s start with a glass of cold lemonade. Does that sound like summer refreshment to you? 

Lemonade Stand Memories

My summer memories include our childhood lemonade stands where sugary liquid pooled on the table and covered dimes and quarters with stickiness.

I remember …

–selling lemonade to the mail carrier and neighborhood kids who ran home to get their dimes,

–cooling off by drinking more cups of lemonade than we sold,

–standing in the grass with a tanned face and arms that glistened in the sunlight (Aunt Tommie said only animals sweat, and in the South, some say we glisten instead of perspire.), and

–laughing with friends around the table in our front yard.

Let’s capture some summer fun with our adult friends and brighten their and our summer days with refreshment, encouragement, and joy.

Paul’s encouraging words

I don’t think the apostle Paul drank lemonade, but he appreciated the fellowship of gathering with friends. His words teach us the importance of cultivating friendships and encouraging each other.

Inspired by the Holy Spirit, Paul began the book of Romans by explaining his role as a servant of Christ (1:1-6) and by telling the recipients of his letter how he’d prayed for them (vv. 8-9).

In verses 11-12, Paul wrote,

For I long to see you, that I may impart to you some spiritual gift to strengthen you— that is, that we may be mutually encouraged by each other’s faith, both yours and mine.

Romans 1:11-12 ESV

Paul knew the value of gathering for mutual encouragement. He so desperately wanted to visit with believers in Rome, that he urged them

 to strive together with me in your prayers to God on my behalf, that I may be delivered from the unbelievers in Judea, and that my service for Jerusalem may be acceptable to the saints, so that by God’s will I may come to you with joy and be refreshed in your company.

Romans 15:30-32 ESV

The New Testament letter writer knew Christian fellowship would encourage faith and offer joy and refreshment. When we connect with God and learn more of Him, we have more to offer others, and the benefit is reciprocal when they do the same.

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Kelly Minter, a Bible study author, speaker, and singer, also knows the value of gathering with friends. She recently wrote on her Facebook post, “When my spirits are low, it’s the joy of community, the joy that sometimes runs alongside sorrow, the joy whose source is in Christ, that lightens me.” https://www.facebook.com/KellyMinterAuthor

How can we gain and share refreshment this summer and encourage each other? Following are:

5 Easy Ways to Gather Friends Around the Table

Pray about whom to invite, include a new friend, and plan to gather around a table for a time of fun and encouragement.

1. Pull up your chairs to a coffee shop table. Order iced coffees, share a brief devotion you’ve read recently, and enjoy conversation.

2. Walk in a shady park or beside a river early Saturday morning, then enjoy a thermos of lemonade at a picnic table and pray together.

3. Plan a summer recipe swap. Serve lemonade and a salty snack mix or crackers (homemade cheese cracker recipe below).

4. Schedule a time to browse through some shops or visit a flower garden together. Afterwards, enjoy lunch at a quaint café or your favorite restaurant.

5. Invite friends for a simple breakfast on the patio, deck, or porch one morning before the heat index soars. Juice, coffee, and muffins fuel conversation. Yogurt and fruit are yummy too.

Let’s avoid the autumn “I wish this summer that I had ___” lament. Plan a simple opportunity and invite friends to join you around the table for summer joy, refreshment, and encouragement.

Your Turn

Please enrich our time together by answering one or more of these questions:

Why did Paul focus on fellowship? How does gathering with friends encourage you? What’s your favorite way to gather around a table and encourage others?

-A heartfelt thank you to readers who share my posts with friends

More Refreshing Summer Recipes

Crispy Cheese Bites

                A crispy, delicious treat with summer lemonade

Ingredients

1 cup butter (not whipped), softened ahead of time

2 cups sifted self-rising flour

2 cups grated sharp cheddar cheese

2 cups rice cereal

¼ teaspoon cayenne pepper (or less)

Cream the butter and blend in the cheese. Stir pepper into the flour and add the flour to the creamed mixture. Mix well. Blend in cereal last. Coat fingertips with flour and shape the mixture into small balls. Place them on a baking sheet and press lightly with a fork to ¼ inch thickness. Bake at 325 degrees for 20 minutes or until barely light brown. Cool on a wire rack. Store in an airtight container.

  Lemonade

Check out this site to discover lemonade pro tips and how to freeze the lemon juice-water syrup for a later time.

https://tastesbetterfromscratch.com/fresh-squeezed-lemonade/

Here you’ll find summer beverage “Tips & Tricks” like “Fizzy Lemonade” and how to substitute honey for sugar.

https://recipesbycarina.com/homemade-lemonade-recipe/

This interesting site includes the history of lemonade, a pro golfer’s choice, and why the tasty beverage quenches thirst.

https://flavorman.com/5-things-about-lemonade

NOTE: Click the link for the last post with an introduction to the current theme and 2 recipes.                                                                                               Reach for Refreshment post

   Updates on A Place at His Table   

Bold Vision Books will release my book in late August this year!

Several readers have asked me about the process of writing a book, so I’ll answer your questions here. If you like reading details, here they are.

Before I update, I’ll backtrack a bit to answer your questions.

During the fall of 2018, a women’s Bible study group at our church studied Psalm 23: The Shepherd Within Me by Jennifer Rothschild. I pondered verse five for weeks.

You prepare a table before me in the presence of my enemies;
you anoint my head with oil; my cup overflows.

Psalm 23:5 ESV

In my journal, I sketched a table at the top of each page and asked God to teach me more about His table and His provision. He taught me then, and He’s still teaching me now; all I need for each day rests on the table He’s prepared for me. Maybe not all I want, but all I need. I don’t have to live with heart-grasping, joy-stealing worry, fear, or doubt—and neither do you.

The Idea

The idea for A Place at His Table: God’s Daily Gifts to Satisfy Your Heart began to percolate. I sensed God leading me to write devotions to help other women learn to trust Him for all their needs. Each devotion would start with a table story and illustrate one of God’s blessings or gifts.

The Beginning Process

From the spring of 2019 to the fall of 2021, I prayed, studied, sought training and advice at Christian writers’ conferences, consulted with friends, and wrote some devotions. I asked God to confirm my ideas or close doors.

After submitting samples and later a formal, 33-page, book proposal, I received an email in 2022 announcing Bold Vision Books planned to extend a contract for this project. The thought of it still amazes me.

The Manuscript

For the next year, I studied, prayed (lots), wrote devotions, rewrote devotions, edited devotions, and sought critiques and advice. I worked hard to ensure the stories fit the Bible passage I highlighted. When I realized I had repeated some ideas and writer friends pointed out titles that didn’t fit stories well, I created a spreadsheet to track the passages I used and the gifts of God I’d highlighted.

Writing a Table Tip to accompany each devotion was fun and included ideas from friends who were excited about the book.

Finally, this past spring, after two friends helped me proofread, I reread the entire book several times, checking different aspects. I submitted the manuscript this past spring.

Writing a book is a humbling process and a team effort. I’m grateful for the opportunities God gives me to learn more about His Word and to write to honor Him and help readers.

Next Time  

I hope this summary answers your questions. After the next post, I’ll include a briefer update on the editing process and the next phase. What else would you like to know? Feel free to email me at Jeannie@JeannieWaters.com.

Thank you for sharing my joy. Please join me in prayer as I collaborate with the wonderful folks at Bold Vision Books to send A Place at His Table out into the world to honor God and share with readers what God is teaching me.   

The Safest Pandemic Fellowship

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After facing 2020’s canceled events with minimal social time, safe gathering opportunities fill my heart with joy. Family, friends, and Christian fellowship brighten our days.

Last week one of our granddaughters was giddy with anticipation to visit Poppy and Gigi (that’s us) for the first time in months. She danced around the room and with top-of-her-lungs excitement, shared her good fortune with siblings.

Two days later I was the giddy one. Our son invited us to join his family at a state park where he’d discovered a secluded, crystal-clear stream.

We waded, splashed, found wild muscadines, and watched a toy boat float in the current. We laughed when our grandson covered my feet with sand and applauded when our granddaughter climbed a fallen tree and jumped into the water below.

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The fresh air and shady stream of our private haven delighted us, and family time refreshed our hearts.

Additional blessings–Sunday school Zoom meetings and online prayer with friends–refresh my soul and offer connection. I’m grateful for those opportunities, but in-person meetings are one step closer to the norm—warm pre-pandemic fellowship. Would you agree?

Last week when our ladies’ Bible study resumed, we skipped coffee, snacks, and hugs and viewed the masked faces of classmates from a distance. Still, we relished assembling to study God’s Word. 

Even more important than gathering with family and friends is the privilege of one-on-One meetings with God. No safety measures or protocols hinder our joy or personal connection to Abba Father.  

… In Your presence there is fullness of joy …

Psalm 16:11

The Lord is near to all who call on him, to all who call on him in truth.

Psalm 145:18

We may not be able to participate in all the gatherings we’d prefer to join right now, but we can be just as excited to spend time with God as our granddaughter was to play at our house or as family members were to wade in the stream. What if we replace the time we mourn over lost opportunities with quiet times of worship?

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Spending time alone with God in our own private haven offers the peace and joy of His presence and prepares our heart to hear from Him as we pray and study.

When I take my Bible, a journal, and a mug of coffee to our deck, the freshness of morning and the melody of songbirds create a sanctuary for worship and conversations.  

Do you have a favorite haven and a designated time for meeting with God? What joys do you experience as you “gather” with Him for fellowship?  

Bible verses are from the ESV.