Fall Tips for Closets and Hearts

Goosebumps covered my ten-year-old arms and legs as I skipped rocks on the river beside our grandparents’ cabin. How I wished for my soft, gray corduroy pants on that cool, breezy autumn day!

Warm apparel is comforting when fall approaches. Curling up on a cool night with a good book and a soft blanket is better than ever when I wear my black-and-white checked flannel pajamas. Do you have a favorite sweater, pair of leggings, or warm coat that’s like an old friend?

Each September I remove summer clothes from my closet to make more room for turtlenecks, jackets, and warm slacks. (Not this week; it’s still hot where I live!) As I prepare for the new season, I assess my fall wardrobe. The try-it-on-to-see-if-I-still-need-it mound grows on my bed. A glance in the mirror confirms my suspicion that some outfits have outlived their usefulness. I mean, when did I wear that last? Will I wear it again?

The goal is to keep only seasonally-appropriate, well-fitting clothes. The rule? Toss those articles you haven’t worn in two years. Or if you’re feeling ruthless, one year. Are you ready to tackle your closet? Come on, it’s not THAT hard, right? Well maybe, but not impossible. Try the strategies below.

Closet Purging Strategies

  1. Write a closet-cleaning date on the calendar.
  2. Plan a reward for a season-ready, well-organized closet.
  3. Divide clothing into three piles:
  • Keep and enjoy.
  • Donate so that someone else can enjoy. (Keep receipts for tax purposes.)
  • I’m not sure.
  1. Tackle the “not sure” pile and ask, “Will I wear this soon? When? Where?” Mirrors are honest. Try on each item and take a whirl.
  2. If necessary, call an honest friend. Be brave.
  3. Arrange outfits on the bed. Make a list of new pieces to purchase that might add pizazz to your wardrobe. A new scarf, a denim jacket, or a tailored white shirt might multiply possibilities.
    Would you share your strategies in the comment section? We all need help.

    Now for more important changes . . .

Just as cool weather signals wardrobe adjustments, a new season can be a good time to examine our hearts. Are there habits or attitudes we should abandon like a moth-eaten sweater? Are there Christ-like characteristics we should adopt or “put on?” The Bible can help us decide.

 But now you must put them all away: anger, wrath, malice, slander, and obscene talk from your mouth.

                                                                                                                              –Colossians 3:8 ESV*

Let no corrupting talk come out of your mouths, but only such as is good for building up, as fits the occasion, that it may give grace to those who hear.

                                                                                                                         –Ephesians 4:29

Put on then, as God’s chosen ones, holy and beloved, compassionate hearts, kindness, humility, meekness, and patience, bearing with one another . . . And above all these put on love . . .

                                                                                                                              –Colossians 3:12-14

God’s Word teaches us to “put on” godly conduct. I’ll be honest. When I try to improve myself, success is short-lived. I try but always fall short. Have you found that to be true in your life?

The good news is when God does the work, it’s from the heart outward. Once we’ve accepted Jesus as Savior, God promises to conform us to His image. When He changes us, these qualities dwell in our hearts and shine from our lives.

Prayer and reading Scripture will remind us of the work God is doing in our hearts. Maybe it would help to imagine slipping on a new fall jacket labeled “kindness,” or “love” or “patience” before we start each day.

Okay, it’s time to get into that closet and make those bold decisions as you prepare for cooler weather. When you finish, if you’d like to read further about heart changes, I suggest the following:

Colossians, Chapter 3
Ephesians, Chapter 4
Heart Renovation: A Construction Guide to Godly Character

Many readers have found this book amazingly helpful.

If you want God to change your heart, you’ll enjoy reading one article at a time written by 30 authors, including me.

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Happy Fall, Y’all!

*All Bible verses are from the ESV, English Standard Version.

Extreme Makeover: Heart and Home Edition*

Ugly, black spider-like mold and wet floor joists dampened our enthusiasm. We had no idea destruction lurked behind the sheetrock until my husband removed the kitchen cabinets. Now, instead of creating the beautiful new decor we envisioned, progress halted as we assessed damage from an old pipe that had been secretly leaking.

We budgeted for new countertops, paint, and cabinets but elected to keep our ceramic tile floor to save money. Did you know that removing floor joists under cabinets can trigger cracks in ceramic tile? Yep! One problem led to another. A hidden issue had damaged a vital part of our home one layer at a time.

As a result, our renovation project took three extra months and more money for new flooring. Without a sink or dishwasher, we were grateful for a good insurance plan that allowed take-out dinners.

The restoration company removed damaged materials and ensured the area was dry and mold-free before reconstruction began. A small amount of moisture or mold spores left behind could have spread and jeopardized the integrity of the house. Home renovation projects are time-consuming and must include thorough cleansing of problem-causing culprits. Heart renovation is the same. Layers of worry, impatience, lack of self-control, jealousy, or other sins can lodge in our hearts like mold spores, then fester and spread into other areas. Unforgiveness can turn into bitterness, and pride can lead to self-centeredness. Sin left hidden can undermine our heart’s foundation.

When we want God to transform our hearts, we must spend time with Him in prayer as we study the Bible, His letter to us. Romans 12:2 teaches,

“Do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewal of your mind, that by testing you may discern what is the will of God, what is good and acceptable and perfect (ESV).

As I pray for God to transform my heart, I’m enjoying a recently-published Bible study entitled Heart Renovation: A Construction Guide to Godly Character. I am honored to have two articles in this compilation which focuses on cooperating with God as He builds godly character into us.

Two of my favorite sections are “Repairing the Hidden Problems of Character” and “Constructing Character that Overcomes Life Issues. ” There are parts devoted to children, the fruit of the Spirit, and many other subjects.

This publication is perfect for group Bible study and includes a leader guide, but it is also ideal for personal reading. Answering questions at the end of each entry challenges me to apply principles I’m learning.

And now—to borrow a Paul Harvey term—”the rest of the kitchen story” . . .

After a parade of subcontractors, more financial commitment than we’d budgeted, and hundreds of paper plates, the sparkly “new” kitchen adds value to our home and makes food prep a joy. Once hidden issues were addressed, we built on a firm foundation.

Here’s an even better story:

God fills my heart with peace and joy as I yield to Him, the heart Builder, and invest the time and study needed for Him to cleanse and renovate my heart for His purpose. The hope of becoming more Christlike encourages me. As God changes us, we are better equipped to share encouragement and hope with others.

Please share below what helps you become more Christlike.

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Create in me a clean heart, O God, and renew a right spirit within me.

     –Psalm 51:10 ESV

*Extreme Makeover: Home Edition (television) was produced by ABC. The show was cancelled in 2012.