Are you a planner or a wisher? Eleanor Roosevelt said, “It takes as much energy to wish as it does to plan.” 1 I’m of the planner variety. I make lists beside my lists and, as my raised-on-the- farm husband says, “I grin like a mule eating briers” when I check off completed tasks. I enjoy the results for two reasons: There’s one less item on the to-do list. I see progress toward a goal. Some people prefer detailed planning systems. Others jot an informal to-do list for the next day or refer to a mental list as…