Refresh with Summer Joy: 5 Easy Ways to Gather Friends Around the Table

Let’s continue our theme of reaching for refreshment and savoring summer days by cultivating our relationship with God and each other.

Today I’m including:

1. Lemonade stand memories,

2. Encouraging words from the apostle Paul,

3. 5 easy ways to gather friends around the table,

4. 2 more summer recipes, and drum roll please …

5. Updates on A Place at His Table, my devotional that releases this August.

Let’s start with a glass of cold lemonade. Does that sound like summer refreshment to you? 

Lemonade Stand Memories

My summer memories include our childhood lemonade stands where sugary liquid pooled on the table and covered dimes and quarters with stickiness.

I remember …

–selling lemonade to the mail carrier and neighborhood kids who ran home to get their dimes,

–cooling off by drinking more cups of lemonade than we sold,

–standing in the grass with a tanned face and arms that glistened in the sunlight (Aunt Tommie said only animals sweat, and in the South, some say we glisten instead of perspire.), and

–laughing with friends around the table in our front yard.

Let’s capture some summer fun with our adult friends and brighten their and our summer days with refreshment, encouragement, and joy.

Paul’s encouraging words

I don’t think the apostle Paul drank lemonade, but he appreciated the fellowship of gathering with friends. His words teach us the importance of cultivating friendships and encouraging each other.

Inspired by the Holy Spirit, Paul began the book of Romans by explaining his role as a servant of Christ (1:1-6) and by telling the recipients of his letter how he’d prayed for them (vv. 8-9).

In verses 11-12, Paul wrote,

For I long to see you, that I may impart to you some spiritual gift to strengthen you— that is, that we may be mutually encouraged by each other’s faith, both yours and mine.

Romans 1:11-12 ESV

Paul knew the value of gathering for mutual encouragement. He so desperately wanted to visit with believers in Rome, that he urged them

 to strive together with me in your prayers to God on my behalf, that I may be delivered from the unbelievers in Judea, and that my service for Jerusalem may be acceptable to the saints, so that by God’s will I may come to you with joy and be refreshed in your company.

Romans 15:30-32 ESV

The New Testament letter writer knew Christian fellowship would encourage faith and offer joy and refreshment. When we connect with God and learn more of Him, we have more to offer others, and the benefit is reciprocal when they do the same.

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Kelly Minter, a Bible study author, speaker, and singer, also knows the value of gathering with friends. She recently wrote on her Facebook post, “When my spirits are low, it’s the joy of community, the joy that sometimes runs alongside sorrow, the joy whose source is in Christ, that lightens me.” https://www.facebook.com/KellyMinterAuthor

How can we gain and share refreshment this summer and encourage each other? Following are:

5 Easy Ways to Gather Friends Around the Table

Pray about whom to invite, include a new friend, and plan to gather around a table for a time of fun and encouragement.

1. Pull up your chairs to a coffee shop table. Order iced coffees, share a brief devotion you’ve read recently, and enjoy conversation.

2. Walk in a shady park or beside a river early Saturday morning, then enjoy a thermos of lemonade at a picnic table and pray together.

3. Plan a summer recipe swap. Serve lemonade and a salty snack mix or crackers (homemade cheese cracker recipe below).

4. Schedule a time to browse through some shops or visit a flower garden together. Afterwards, enjoy lunch at a quaint café or your favorite restaurant.

5. Invite friends for a simple breakfast on the patio, deck, or porch one morning before the heat index soars. Juice, coffee, and muffins fuel conversation. Yogurt and fruit are yummy too.

Let’s avoid the autumn “I wish this summer that I had ___” lament. Plan a simple opportunity and invite friends to join you around the table for summer joy, refreshment, and encouragement.

Your Turn

Please enrich our time together by answering one or more of these questions:

Why did Paul focus on fellowship? How does gathering with friends encourage you? What’s your favorite way to gather around a table and encourage others?

-A heartfelt thank you to readers who share my posts with friends

More Refreshing Summer Recipes

Crispy Cheese Bites

                A crispy, delicious treat with summer lemonade

Ingredients

1 cup butter (not whipped), softened ahead of time

2 cups sifted self-rising flour

2 cups grated sharp cheddar cheese

2 cups rice cereal

¼ teaspoon cayenne pepper (or less)

Cream the butter and blend in the cheese. Stir pepper into the flour and add the flour to the creamed mixture. Mix well. Blend in cereal last. Coat fingertips with flour and shape the mixture into small balls. Place them on a baking sheet and press lightly with a fork to ¼ inch thickness. Bake at 325 degrees for 20 minutes or until barely light brown. Cool on a wire rack. Store in an airtight container.

  Lemonade

Check out this site to discover lemonade pro tips and how to freeze the lemon juice-water syrup for a later time.

https://tastesbetterfromscratch.com/fresh-squeezed-lemonade/

Here you’ll find summer beverage “Tips & Tricks” like “Fizzy Lemonade” and how to substitute honey for sugar.

https://recipesbycarina.com/homemade-lemonade-recipe/

This interesting site includes the history of lemonade, a pro golfer’s choice, and why the tasty beverage quenches thirst.

https://flavorman.com/5-things-about-lemonade

NOTE: Click the link for the last post with an introduction to the current theme and 2 recipes.                                                                                               Reach for Refreshment post

   Updates on A Place at His Table   

Bold Vision Books will release my book in late August this year!

Several readers have asked me about the process of writing a book, so I’ll answer your questions here. If you like reading details, here they are.

Before I update, I’ll backtrack a bit to answer your questions.

During the fall of 2018, a women’s Bible study group at our church studied Psalm 23: The Shepherd Within Me by Jennifer Rothschild. I pondered verse five for weeks.

You prepare a table before me in the presence of my enemies;
you anoint my head with oil; my cup overflows.

Psalm 23:5 ESV

In my journal, I sketched a table at the top of each page and asked God to teach me more about His table and His provision. He taught me then, and He’s still teaching me now; all I need for each day rests on the table He’s prepared for me. Maybe not all I want, but all I need. I don’t have to live with heart-grasping, joy-stealing worry, fear, or doubt—and neither do you.

The Idea

The idea for A Place at His Table: God’s Daily Gifts to Satisfy Your Heart began to percolate. I sensed God leading me to write devotions to help other women learn to trust Him for all their needs. Each devotion would start with a table story and illustrate one of God’s blessings or gifts.

The Beginning Process

From the spring of 2019 to the fall of 2021, I prayed, studied, sought training and advice at Christian writers’ conferences, consulted with friends, and wrote some devotions. I asked God to confirm my ideas or close doors.

After submitting samples and later a formal, 33-page, book proposal, I received an email in 2022 announcing Bold Vision Books planned to extend a contract for this project. The thought of it still amazes me.

The Manuscript

For the next year, I studied, prayed (lots), wrote devotions, rewrote devotions, edited devotions, and sought critiques and advice. I worked hard to ensure the stories fit the Bible passage I highlighted. When I realized I had repeated some ideas and writer friends pointed out titles that didn’t fit stories well, I created a spreadsheet to track the passages I used and the gifts of God I’d highlighted.

Writing a Table Tip to accompany each devotion was fun and included ideas from friends who were excited about the book.

Finally, this past spring, after two friends helped me proofread, I reread the entire book several times, checking different aspects. I submitted the manuscript this past spring.

Writing a book is a humbling process and a team effort. I’m grateful for the opportunities God gives me to learn more about His Word and to write to honor Him and help readers.

Next Time  

I hope this summary answers your questions. After the next post, I’ll include a briefer update on the editing process and the next phase. What else would you like to know? Feel free to email me at Jeannie@JeannieWaters.com.

Thank you for sharing my joy. Please join me in prayer as I collaborate with the wonderful folks at Bold Vision Books to send A Place at His Table out into the world to honor God and share with readers what God is teaching me.   

Reach for Refreshment & Savor Your Summer: Connect with God and Each Other

 

How can “Connecting with God and Each Other” refresh us and help us squeeze all the goodness out of summer days?

Did you notice the title change in my website banner above? I still plan to brighten your day with encouraging posts based on God’s Word and practical tips, but we’ll focus on relationships and how to strengthen them.

As I read Scripture and talk with friends, ideas are splashing onto the page like a waterfall on the river rocks below it. I can’t wait to share posts with you and read your ideas.

A challenge

Let’s reach for refreshment and savor our summer days before the season slips away. Vacations, family visits, and the restful days we treasure at home all renew us. Still, these sunny days will vanish as quickly as watermelon at a picnic.

No regrets

Instead of saying, “This summer, I meant to …,” let’s plan to enjoy the days and the refreshment God gives us when we build our relationship with Him and with others.

Table time for refreshment

My favorite place to connect with our heavenly Father is at the table on my deck. A cup of coffee and a bird chorus start my summer days off right—with refreshment I can savor all day.

One morning, I walked onto the deck to pray and read Scripture after the temperature had reached 84 degrees. I returned to the kitchen and poured my coffee from one ice-filled cup to another until it cooled.

I walked back to my table on the deck and sipped the iced coffee. The drink’s coolness refreshed me physically and God’s Word refreshed my spirit.

The law of the Lord is perfect, reviving the soul.

Psalm 19:7 ESV

The early morning summer air is crisp and cool where I live, but when the day races ahead of my time with God, it gets too hot and sticky to sit outside. (The humidity here sometimes makes me feel like I’m wrapped in plastic wrap. Seriously.)

When my day gets into full swing and I’m deprived of my time with God, worry or stress sometimes heats up too. We can read our Bibles and pray anytime, but spending time in God’s Word early on summer mornings refreshes our spirits and brightens our day. (If mornings don’t work for you, try another time of day.)

Sharing God’s blessings

After we’ve talked with Him in prayer and filled our hearts with His Word, connecting with others is easier and more enjoyable. Whether we’re introverts or extroverts, Scripture teaches us to reach out to others.

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Let’s consider three verses about fellowship.

  1. The first verse gives us a biblical example. After the Resurrection and Pentecost, when God sent His Holy Spirit to dwell in believers,

they devoted themselves to the apostles’ teaching and the fellowship, to the breaking of bread and the prayers.

Acts 2:42 ESV

  1. The inspired writer of Hebrews tells us how to cherish our time to build relationships and encourage fellow believers.

And let us consider how to stir up one another to love and good works, not neglecting to meet together, as is the habit of some, but encouraging one another, and all the more as you see the Day drawing near.

Hebrews 10:24-25 ESV

  1. Paul’s writing teaches us how to connect with those who may not be Christ followers. Look for two strategies in this passage. How can they guide us this summer?

Walk in wisdom toward outsiders, making the best use of the time. Let your speech always be gracious, seasoned with salt, so that you may know how you ought to answer each person.

Colossians 4:5-6 ESV

From these three verses alone, we find an example and strategies to help us strengthen current relationships and build bridges to create new ones for the purpose of sharing Christ.

Whether you’re reluctant to reach out to others or you’re the first one to say, “Come join me,” future blog posts will hold biblical truth and practical help I’m learning for connecting with God and each other.

Before you go, I have one small favor please, and then I have a gift for you.

Would you send a link for this post to 3 friends? If the posts are blessings to you, tell them. Also, let them know for a limited time I’ll continue to send a free PDF to new subscribers entitled “10 Easy Appetizers, Ideas & Recipes” to enjoy around the table with family and friends.

A new resource about friendships will replace this one soon.

Your Turn

What’s your favorite way to connect with God and with friends during the summer months?

A summertime gift for you

Our daughter is offering you two summertime treat ideas to enjoy and share with friends, old and new.  Savor your days and reach for refreshment.

Iced Coffee

Brew a pot or prepare a cup of coffee.

Add milk or cream and sugar or sweetener if you prefer.

Allow the coffee to cool.

Pour it into an old-fashioned ice cube tray and place it in the freezer.

When you’re ready for a cool treat, place the coffee cubes into a thermal cup. Stir as they begin to melt and enjoy your visit.

Refreshing Broccoli Salad

Add ingredients to a large bowl.

  • fresh broccoli florets
  • chopped red onion
  • crumbled goat cheese (Or substitute your favorite.)
  • raspberries, strawberries, and blueberries
  • chopped walnuts or pecans

Add balsamic vinaigrette dressing to taste. Mix gently for a colorful and tasty salad.

Summer News

This summer, I plan to start a monthly newsletter for subscribers. I’ll pack it full of refreshing value and include additional summer treats.

See you next time.

If you need refreshment, click the link to this former post.

Quench Your Thirst

How Can a Childhood Game Remind Us to Pursue Godly Behavior?  

Before the blog post … I have EXCITING NEWS TO SHARE WITH YOU!

I’m delighted to introduce my beautiful book cover! I absolutely love it and hope you do, too. I can’t wait to see it wrapped around the words God led me to write.

Bold Vision Books, my fantastic publisher, will release the book in late August 2023!

Watch for A Place at His Table: God’s Daily Gifts to Satisfy Your Heart, a 40-day devotional.

And now, let’s focus on

How Can a Childhood Game Remind Us to Pursue Godly Behavior?  

When I read 1 Timothy 6 last week, the childhood game Red Light, Green Light popped into my mind. Paul’s words in this letter instructed the Ephesian church pastor, Timothy, and they teach us today. From this passage we learn to stop and go—stop certain behaviors and go forward with others.

My childhood friends on Summer Hill Drive and I played Red Light, Green Light under the streetlights on warm evenings. We stood in a horizontal line while the leader walked a distance away and counted aloud with her back to us.  

We’d run forward as she counted until she said, “Red light.” The object was to assume the role of leader by arriving at her location first.  She’d count, “One, two, three, four … red light!” Then she’d spin around to see if anyone was still moving.

When we stopped on the call of “red light,” we stayed secure in our advanced location. If she caught us moving, she sent us back to the starting line. She could count to three or further, so we ran fast and listened carefully.

Stop and go on cue were the winning strategy words.

Our loving parents also spoke in stop and go language to teach us. We made progress toward healthy adulthood when we stopped one behavior, pivoted, and moved toward better conduct.  

  • “Stop talking on the phone and finish your homework.”
  • “Stop running in the house and go clean your room.”
  • “Stop watching TV. Go outside to get some sunshine and exercise.”

Even as adults, we sometimes hear directions, such as “Stop eating cholesterol-laden foods and choose more fruits and vegetables.”

How can the childhood game of Red Light, Green Light and the directions we hear from medical professionals remind us of Paul’s teachings?

Although a Christian’s relationship with God remains secure, the Bible teaches us many stop and go lessons.

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One of the blessings of the Christian faith includes the assurance God accepts us based on a personal relationship with Christ, not on our daily performance or lifetime achievements.

Still, because we love God and want to serve Him, we pay attention to the Bible’s stop and go lessons.

All Scripture is breathed out by God and profitable for teaching, for reproof, for correction, and for training in righteousness,that the man of God may be complete, equipped for every good work.

2 Timothy 3:16-17 ESV

Paul instructed Timothy and urged him to identify and guard against false teaching (1 Timothy 6:3-5) and an unhealthy craving for money (vv. 8-10). He encouraged Timothy and all believers to stop those behaviors—to “flee those things” (v. 11).

Paul’s inspired words tell us to “Fight the good fight of the faith” (v. 12) against those sins.  

When we fight against something because of our love for God, we flee. We pivot quickly and run in the opposite direction with a better goal in mind.  

After telling Timothy (and us) which behaviors to avoid, Paul gave the green light. His list of behaviors and attributes help us move toward a goal of godliness.

Pursue righteousness, godliness, faith, love, steadfastness, gentleness. Fight the good fight of the faith. Take hold of the eternal life to which you were called and about which you made the good confession in the presence of many witnesses.

1 Timothy 6:11-12 ESV

When we pursue a goal, we want to remove hindrances, fix our eyes on the finish line, and use the tools God gives us “so as to walk in a manner worthy of the Lord, fully pleasing to him: bearing fruit in every good work and increasing in the knowledge of God” (Colossians 1:10 ESV).

This week I plan to pray this verse.

“Make me to know your ways, O Lord; teach me your paths.”

Psalm 25:4 ESV

When I read my Bible, I want to pay close attention to the stop and go instructions I read—the behaviors and attitudes I need to flee and the actions God promises to work into my life. Perhaps you’d like to join me.

His divine power has granted to us all things that pertain to life and godliness, through the knowledge of him who called us to his own glory and excellence.

2 Peter 1:3 ESV

Your Turn

Please share your thoughts on how Christians can pursue the qualities listed in verse 11 above. Thank you for contributing your ideas.

Here’s another announcement: Book winners!

As I promised in the last post, I drew names from the readers who left a comment.  

Congratulations to these two winners!

Peggy Ellis won a copy of Katherine Pasour’s book, Honoring God with My Body: Journey to Wellness and a Healthy Lifestyle.

Yvonne Morgan won a copy of Destination Hope: A Travel Companion When Life Falls Apart by Marilyn Nutter and April White.

I highly recommend both books, as well as the others I included in the last post.

May 9, 2023 post on JeannieWaters.com

Need Ideas for Mother’s Day, Graduation, and End-of-the-School-Year Gifts?

Today I’m sharing gift ideas for Mother’s Day and other May celebrations. Here’s what you’ll find:

  •    Mother’s Day gift ideas
  •    an opportunity to win a FREE BOOK!
  •    links to additional posts:

            – gifts for older women

            -practical graduation gifts of influence, inspiration, and legacy

-graduation and end-of-the-school-year gifts

Books as Gifts

Are you searching for the perfect Mother’s Day gift? Consider books—gifts that keep on giving. Flowers and candy are delightful gifts and are fun to receive, but books last longer. You can reread them, donate them, or give them to a friend when you’re finished.

Today I’m sharing some books I love. Maybe your mom, aunt, or grandmother would like one of these I’ve enjoyed.

Flowers and candy are delightful gifts and are fun to receive, but books last longer. Share on X

An Opportunity for Extra Mile Steps

Do you know another woman who’s blessed you or who needs a gift to say she’s special?  A friend, neighbor, or church member? Why not call, send a card to assure her of your prayers and appreciation, or ship a book to her?

A generous person will prosper; whoever refreshes others will be refreshed.

Proverbs 11:25 NIV
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FREE BOOKS

I’ll draw two names from those who post a comment below before midnight May 12. I’ll mail those two readers a book anywhere in the US. LINKS BELOW.

For Love’s Sake: The Life-Changing Facets of Love in 30 Bible Studies, Devotions, & Christian Living Articles

Destination Hope: A Travel Companion When Life Falls Apart

Refresh Your Hope: 60 Devotions for Trusting God with All Your Heart

365 Ways to Love Your Child: Turning LIttle Moments into Lasting Memories

Honoring God with My Body: Journey to Wellness and a Healthy Lif

Additional Gift Ideas for Mother’s Day, Graduation, and End-of-the-School Year

This link opens to a Mother’s Day memory and ideas for older moms.

Window Box Begonias and Gifts for Older Moms

Here’s a post with ideas for graduation, Mother’s Day, and end-of-the-school-year gifts.

https://jeanniewaters.com/blog/gift-ideas-for-may-2018/

I shared this beautiful graduation gift post written by Marilyn Nutter last year.

https://jeanniewaters.com/blog/graduates-practical-gifts-of-influence-inspiration-and-legacy-a-guest-post-by-marilyn-nutter/

Your Turn

Please share your favorite Mother’s Day memory or a suggestion for blessing another woman.

Spring Beauty Teaches 7 Powerful Lessons About Abiding in Christ

My walk to admire seasonal beauty opened my eyes to more than flowers. Here’s what I noticed about abiding in Christ.

Lesson 1

Our snowball bush boasts huge, ball-shaped flowers and commands attention and appreciation. Its branches held so many blooms this year, I couldn’t imagine one more fitting on its limbs. This stunning shrub reminds me of God’s blessings—bountiful and perfectly selected for us.

God’s creation calls our attention to Him when we take notice of all His wondrous works. I wonder how many times I miss them, and how many times I notice but forget to thank Him. Abiding in Christ includes being aware of His presence, noticing His blessings, and thanking Him for them.

Heavenly Father, lift my chin to notice the numerous ways You bless me. Thank You for the beauty of spring and eyes to see it. Teach me when I read Your Word, Father, and open my eyes to Truth.

Lesson 2

The snowball flowers display their beauty by remaining on the shrub and growing from bud to full bloom. We grow in Christ as we abide in Him and draw spiritual nourishment from our relationship with Him through Bible study and prayer.

We can define abide as “to live, continue, or remain … abiding in Christ is not a special level of Christian experience, rather, it is the position of all true believers.” 1  

Abide in me, and I in you. As the branch cannot bear fruit by itself, unless it abides in the vine, neither can you, unless you abide in me.

John 15:4 ESV

There’s so much God wants to teach us—about Him, life with Him, and how to bear fruit to honor Him.

Father, as I walk with you each day, help me enjoy the adventure. Open my spiritual eyes and ears to know what you want to teach me.

Lesson 3

When I continued my walk, I noticed two spirea bushes. I called those plants “Bride’s Bouquet” when I was a child because they bloom with tiny bunches of white flowers. These graceful shrubs add a delicate, lacy touch to the spring extravaganza and make me smile.

God’s blessings also delight us, adding joy, grace, beauty, and wonder to our lives. They help us pause and remember who He is. We can exchange fear for His gift of peace. We can lay down our doubt and pick up faith.

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Heavenly Father, remind me when I carry around heavy burdens you never planned for me to bear alone. I want to embrace all your gifts and live for You.

Lesson 4

When our granddaughter took a bouquet of spring flowers to our neighbor, I thought about how God gives us gifts to share.

Father God, thank you for blessings to enjoy—like beautiful spring flowers. Thank you for Your presence in my life and Your faithfulness. Remind me Your blessings are not mine to tuck away and admire. Instead, they’re designed to remind me of Your love and care and to share with those You place in my path. Make me a worthy steward and help me share my blessings today.  

 Lesson 5

After admiring the large shrubs, I wandered around the yard and noticed weeds and wildflowers peeping through the grass. The onion grass with its characteristic smell peppers the lawn with light green stems and white flowers. But weeds are a nuisance, I thought.

Upon closer examination though, I observed the pretty, delicate little flowers heralding a new season. Instead of characterizing onion grass as a pest, I decided to appreciate it as a unique sign of spring and another of God’s creations.

Do I look for the good in everything or am I too quick to complain? As I reflect on this, I realize all God’s gifts are good.

Every good gift and every perfect gift is from above, coming down from the Father of lights, with whom there is no variation or shadow due to change. 

James 1:17 ESV

Give thanks in all circumstances; for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus for you. 

1 Thessalonians 5:18 ESV

Heavenly Father, remind me to thank You in all things—all the time. 

Lesson 6

The next wildflowers I spotted impressed me with their royal color and dramatic shape. They stood in sharp contrast to the surrounding grass and urged me to take a closer look. Although they were stunning, I’d almost missed them. Like the striking wildflowers, I wonder if I overlook people on my path whose lives would enrich mine or vice versa.

Heavenly Father, slow me down when I’m too busy to notice the people You send to teach me and the people You plan for me to serve.

Lesson 7

As I studied other wildflowers through the lens of my camera, I realized they would disappear as soon as my husband cuts the grass. They would provide colorful accessories to spring’s fashion show for only a few more days. How I wished they could stay.

Some blessings are fleeting—ours to enjoy for only a brief time. A sunrise. A sunset. An opportunity to share the good news of salvation in Christ Jesus—the Creator Who gave us such gifts as spring flowers and opportunities to share our blessings.

Lord Jesus, let me fix my gaze on You each morning so that I notice and embrace all the gifts You prepare. May I not miss a single opportunity to share Your love with others.

Your Turn

How does God use His creation to remind you of blessings or teach you about abiding in Christ? Please tell us about those you’ve received or shared recently.

  1. “What Does It Mean to Abide in Christ?” Got Questions, Got Questions Ministries, January 4, 2022. https://www.gotquestions.org/abide-in-Christ.html .